What is an Actualized Woman?
An actualized woman, according to the Progressive Love understanding, is a woman who realizes she has access to both masculine and feminine energy – as all humans do – but then makes a conscious choice in given scenarios…
If this woman desires a man who is in the affirmed masculine, then she comes into and cultivates her feminine. Instead of debating him about his lacking masculine, she develops her inner feminine which naturally attracts powerful masculine.
And instead of opening her mouth to criticize this man, she opens her mind to cultivate him, she literally builds and holds a vision of him as King, Leader, Warrior, Monk and Negotiator. She believes in him, thus becoming a conduit for his living of truth within the vortex of love between them…
And instead of talking about what she doesn’t like, doesn’t want, doesn’t have and will not tolerate, she simply feeds well the images of bliss in her mind, knowing that her world and experiences are literally created from her focus…
And instead of insisting that he do things the way she does – she quite literally designs an irresistible inner receptivity that, like nectar to a worker bee, empowers him to be her protector and servant, desiring the sweet taste of honey from her lips again and again… never able to have enough…Wanting more and more and more of this feminine nectar.
When this girl child is fed up with giving and control – she expands her talent and becomes the gracious receiver – she becomes a woman! In this way, men all over the world live their destinies again, giving eagerly at her shrines, tasting the succulent fulfillment of balance.
This woman will be worshipped and adored, but only once she is a mindfully and functional Woman –
This, my friends, is an actualized woman.
Erotophilic-Bliss 